Life Changes
2nd post of 2009. As mentioned in my last post, my 18 yr. old daughter is talking about moving out. I know that time comes in every young adult when they want their freedom and their own place, but she is not doing this the right way at all. She is wanting to move 2 hours away and with a guy she knew from high school. That isn't the issue I have. The guy has a 3 yr old and living with his aunt. "They" offered to let her move in because she wants to move out. Does anyone else see the issue here? She said she isn't ready to get pregnant and have kids but, she is moving into a home to play mother to a child from a broken something. Don't hink they were ever married but just not together any longer. Either way, not a good way to start her journey to find herself and/or freedom.
She has no job experience except for working in a restaurant. She has no vehicle and no drivers license. Yet she is willing to move in with this person and put herself in an unhealthy situation. I do not understand kids today. She hasn't jumped ship just yet but i am sure it is coming. I guess she will learn the hard way as my wise, fatherly advice seemed to have no impact. We all have done things our parents have warned us not to, but this is WAY out in left field from the norm. Best of luck to her is all I can tell her at this point.
Gonna get some sleep now. Later all and as always...................happy surfing
She has no job experience except for working in a restaurant. She has no vehicle and no drivers license. Yet she is willing to move in with this person and put herself in an unhealthy situation. I do not understand kids today. She hasn't jumped ship just yet but i am sure it is coming. I guess she will learn the hard way as my wise, fatherly advice seemed to have no impact. We all have done things our parents have warned us not to, but this is WAY out in left field from the norm. Best of luck to her is all I can tell her at this point.
Gonna get some sleep now. Later all and as always...................happy surfing
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